Deeper Needs You Should *NOT* Neglect

Deeper Needs You Should *NOT* Neglect

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The information behind what you want and need is precious information.  You have got to be important for you to consider what you need, want and desire and then proceed to make it happen.  

We have fundamental human needs as a child and if they remain unfulfilled as an adult you will at one point in your life struggle with negative emotions and difficult experiences.

For example if the fundamental need of compassion which is the need to be understood remains unfulfilled as a child or adult you will be pitiless. As a child you were not capable of accepting deep, profound feelings for another person. As a child you were not be able to go towards another person and provide help. The child does grow up however and as an adult if this remains unfulfilled chances are you are struggling with compassion and feeling understood.

Tips On What To Do To Feel More In Alignment With Life

Tips On What To Do To Feel More In Alignment With Life

Alignment is a topic that many refer to. There are several ways to make you feel in alignment with the flow of your life. Being in alignment is the result of valuing your needs and merging with your divinity. 

  1. Connecting with what you are experiencing by allowing your feelings or emotions to flow through you and monitoring your thoughts.
  2. Being clear on your intentions.
  3. Knowing why this is important for you by valuing your needs, soulful love and the intelligence of your heart.

How you connect with your experience is key! Let’s focus on knowing why what you need or desire is important for you.

PROBLEM: Staying in your head by analysing your feelings or resisting the reality of your experience will lead you to be either emotionally unavailable or stuck in fear. The energy will get blocked. Your energy will let you know that you are more aligned with fear. 

You may have physical symptoms of pain. You will then start to feel disconnected. Your heart will close. Coming from insecurity, doubt and fear will make you feel out of alignment. Thinking what you feel plays against you.

The way to know why this is important for you requires a time of reflection.
Coming from the sacred space of your heart will make you feel that you are exactly where you are meant to be. What is happening will be accepted.

  1. Do not judge what is really happening. 
  2. Stay neutral whether it pleases you or not
  3. Hold your vision strong in your mind and in your heart.


  • Decide that you will not allow yourself to be distracted or affected by the reality of what is really going on. I know that you have a sensitive string – I also know that you have surpassed many difficulties.
  • Focus on the intention of keeping your heart open to learn from what you are feeling and thinking. There is one repetitive thought, emotion or heartfelt feeling that needs to be put under the microscope for what it really so you can feel in control of yourself. 
  • Take it to heart to have the clarity of why this is important. You will feel relief and serenity when you will know the why this is important for you. This will result in loving thoughts or inspired actions. You will feel in alignment with the flow of your life.

If this is something that challenges you all you need to do is to reach out. A 30 minute Complimentary Discovery Session with me will help you to have a Breakthrough on how to feel more in alignment with the flow of your life.

Feeling good versus waiting on something or someone to feel better

Feeling good versus waiting on something or someone to feel better

When you are living your life through Prosperity and Abundance it reflects your values and your soulful essential needs.  It has a direct link with your vision that is aligned with life. There is no lack in your life. You live your life through unshakable security, trust and confidence. Every aspect of your life is meaningful and satisfying. What you live personally and professionally is meaningful and satisfying.

Living in harmony with Your Highest Good asks you to be real with yourself. It is one level deeper than authenticity.  Authenticity is being transparent. Being real is being connected and aligned with your life. Being real is having both mental and emotional awareness and spiritual consciousness. Discernment is the reward. Respecting the natural limits of your heart enables you to keep your heart open regardless of the situation you are living thus enabling you to set a limit to your ego and its non-loving ways of closing your heart.

Being real is to know the difference between the needs of your ego and the essential needs of your heart and soul. When you are real with yourself you know what you tolerate or no longer tolerate. It gives you the power to be assertive in a very natural way.

You no longer wait or pull on the exterior to fulfill your deepest needs because you are in alignment with life. Obvious or subtle the universe does speak to you. You do receive signals from life that confirms to you that you are on the right path. Being one with your sensitivity guides you perfectly. When you keep your heart open the energy of grace and faith enables you to keep reaching for what you want. You have the certainty that what you want and what need manifests in the most perfect timing in a very natural way. You trust in YOU and you trust in LIFE.  When it shows up in your life it is a perfect fit and it feels good.

A winning combination

A winning combination

When you combine both the psychological and spiritual dimensions by being in harmony with Your Higher Self it gives you the ability to quickly close the gap and you do not stay stuck. Being inspired through your divine clarity puts you in harmony with Your Highest Good.

This is reflected in your day to day behaviours through your decisions and actions. Your frequency is increased. Your power of attraction is increased. The combination of being results oriented and being in harmony with your Higher Self puts you in a very good position. When you are clear with your priorities and you have a good plan of action you are in a very good position to know what you want.

Your efforts seem effortless and they are rewarding. It is amazing when you are in alignment with the universe. Your satisfaction is gratitude. Naturally you keep progressing and you follow through on your next step trusting that what you want or what you need shows up in a most natural and amazing way.

When you are not getting what you want out of life something is unconsciously sabotaging you. The needs of your ego leave you empty and make you live your life through lack. This opens up a gap that asks you to stop the time and gain discernment or perhaps not wanting to get real keeps you stuck. The heaviness and struggles of your ego closes your heart to the richness of life. It disempowers you and does not honor your divine essence. Did you ever ask yourself the question ‘why am I not getting from life what I want? Where is my dream lover? Where is my dream job?’ Where is the money’ THIS DOES NOT HAVE TO BE THIS WAY.

Transformation Through Awareness and Consciousness

Transformation Through Awareness and Consciousness

What empowers you is to quickly gain both awareness and consciousness. This gives you discernment. This puts you in alignment with life and in harmony with Your Highest Good. This requires that you to connect with reality and with the Golden Thread of Your Divine Essence.

Mostly, this asks you to connect with your deepest needs through an open heart. When you know the why behind what you need you have the clarity of how it serves you. You also know how your request to another person serves you. This puts you in a very good position to be real with yourself and to be authentic in your relationships whether they are personal or professional relationships.

When you know how to quickly gain emotional and mental awareness and spiritual consciousness within seconds or minutes you gain discernment. With clarity you are inspired and empowered to be results oriented as you keep reaching for what you want through the energy of faith, grace and excitement. Your trust and confidence is boosted through great security. Looking ahead to what is next is exciting.

Getting real with yourself through countless therapy sessions or countless personal development workshops cannot give you the wholeness that you are seeking. Throughout the many years of yearning to feel home inside my heart I have rarely seen both psychology (emotional and mental awareness) and spiritual consciousness combined in one session or workshop. Keeping awareness and consciousness separate does not give you discernment. This does not give you the wholeness that both your psychological and divine esteem has to offer you.

More of What You Want…

More of What You Want…

I have aligned my soulful business and with what clients’ want more of.

When I started to tally up what my clients (99% women) wanted when they worked with me was very simple and yet challenging at the same time. I came up with one single word  “FREEDOM” –

I have also pin pointed the clients that I truly enjoy helping. “I Help Sensitive Business Women & Entrepreneurs Who Are Overwhelmed With Their Feelings So They Can  Include Their Powerful Sacred Inner Guidance To Make Decisions  & Focus On What Is Important For Them, Without Compromising Themselves”. If you are a sensitive man you are part of the people I serve – you represent 1% of clients. Read more

Money and You

Money and You

Irina Baker, M.A., C.H. is part of Connect With Your Heart Community.  Irina is offering you the opportunity to apply for a complimentary Awareness Shifting Discovery Session. You will enjoy meeting Irina. Make sure to give her my best regards when you speak with her.

I am sure you will enjoy reading this week’s blog written by Irina herself.

Where are you in relationship with money?  Are you friends or do you ignore each other?  In other words, do you want money?  Do you want more money than you already have?  Do you have enough money?  On the surface, all these questions seem silly:  Who in the right mind doesn’t want more money? Read more

Insecurity Through *Feeling Disconnected*

What if you are living with immense anxiety and cannot feel connected to Spirit?

This is where many people struggle and they close their heart. Living with a closed heart is what many fearful people do. Living with a closed heart does not stop a person from functioning. A disconnected person will live through their ego. The outcome will be struggles. It is very difficult to live a relationship with a person that is not emotionally available and feel safe.  If you want to live with emotional security in your relationships you need to start listening to your heart. It is this that will empower you to respect the natural limits of your heart and set your limits with what does not make you feel good.  Taking your decisions from the Intelligence of your heart will enable you to trust yourself and feel more confident.




Staying connected to how you feel and to the Source of your Divinity through your faith and gratitude is the life force. Love is a healer.It’s the natural healer. It’s a medicine. True unconditional love has to start with you if you want to extend it to others. True essential needs are centered within your being. It stems from your shine within wanting to be free and create the life you want to live. Being genuinely happy and satisfied! We all need to be loved, to be heard and to be understood. We need to feel secure. We need to be recognized and esteemed. We most certainly need to take responsibility for our lives. Vital needs stemming from an emotional state are closely linked with survival needs. These needs are fulfilled throughout your day. Many times your basic needs are simple. The essential needs of your heart and soul are over and above emotional needs.

If your own needs are not fulfilled, meeting the needs of another person will breed resentment within. Other times you think you know what another other person needs. This involves caretaking. It takes its root from codependency. You are more into the other person than into yourself, or perhaps you do not allow the other person’s soulful guidance to reveal its clarity. Caretaking is natural for those in need. Parenting a child is natural. Parenting an adult that is not in need involves both caretaking and controlling behaviors.

Perhaps you have difficulties with your own feelings in your heart and to feel better for yourself you must do something for another person. Controlling another person to make you feel better is selfish. It is not with pure intentions of your heart. It is subtle. The ego is at times very subtle. Dominating another person is being disrespectful. Every person has their individual soulful essence. This guides people perfectly. Your Essence guides you perfectly. Be faithful to you and connect with your heart. This will enable you to authentically connect with others.

Part 4 of 4 – Essential Needs of Your Soulful Essence

Part 4 of 4 – Essential Needs of Your Soulful Essence

If you are not capable of accepting your self with what you live you will judge your self as needy or will live with guilt. For example, if you cannot accept how you look you will not accept how another person looks. You will not see the beauty because you don’t see your own beauty. Love is seeing beauty.Loot at nature, it is just beautiful. You need to accept your self with unconditional love. You need to be important for your self. When this very fundamental need ‘importance’ is not fulfilled you reveal your intimacy without limits or boundaries. Or on the other hand you might withdraw into your self or perhaps isolate your self.

You need to be important for YOU!

Naturally you know who is important for you. We need to respect ourselves and respect others. We need humility. Humility gives us the gentleness and flexibility. It is the quest of the heart & soul that leads. It has its own rhythm. We need to connect with our Essence, to our divinity. It is the ultimate connection that leads us lovingly to connect together and share true love.

Only let endurance have perfect results so that you may become perfect and complete, deficient in nothing. James 1:4

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