3 TIPS on Valuing Yourself and Feeling Good

3 TIPS on valuing yourself and feeling good

TIP #1:
 Examine your well-being. You deserve to do what renders justice to Your Love. Offering yourself rewards makes you feel that what you do is worth it. This touches your satisfaction at a deeper level. What can you offer yourself that will really make it feel worthy for you! For example I broke a necklace and it was sitting on the desk. I could not wear my heart pendant because I did not have a chain. 

I am not into jewellery that much – I spend on what is truly meaning for me and this diamond heart represents for me a sacred symbol, a vision I had when I incorporated my soulful business. When I incorporated my soulful business I did a meditation visualisation asking for a symbol that when I would see this symbol it would remind me of my commitment and soulful support.  What I saw behind my eyes was a heart with diamonds. I found an image of this symbol and pasted it on my vision board. Sure enough it manifested. When I reminded myself of the meaning of my symbol I set out to have the chain repaired.
TIP#2: The more that you allow yourself to value what you do when you render services or do something the more you will feel calmer. Yeah! This calm settles within you and increases your confidence. When you value what you do and it increases your vibration with a calm confidencethat others feel. When you value and recognize yourself it makes you feel empowered (When you accept that you will not please every person that crosses your path you will then allow yourself to define your intrinsic worth with high feelings and be uplifted from within.

TIP#3: When it comes to reviewing your personal or business finances of what you have already paid or what needs to be paid, instead of feeling anxious with your money story you can choose to look at the value that your spending has brought you. 

Here are 3 questions to reflect on:

  1. How has it been worth it for you?
  2. How have you invested in what is really worth it for you?
  3. How has it rewarded you?

Knowing How To Fulfil Your Human Fundamental Need of Importance

Knowing How To Fulfil Your Human Fundamental Need of Importance

As a business woman your entrepreneurial journey requires you to stay present with your clients and be practical inbusiness. With the clarity that you have gained in the breakthrough you have power to do something about the way you settle, tolerate or compromising yourself in what you value and is worth it for you.

 

 

This week’s soulful whispers breakthrough reflects your Human Fundamental Need of Importance.

The human fundamental need of importance is critical to fulfil. Self-esteem stems from this need, so does your value and your self-worth. This week’s breakthroughs focusses on fulfilling your human fundamental need of importance as it is this that enables you to value and assert your needs and wants out of self-respect and respect for others. Click here for your breakthrough…

3 TIPS on Valuing Yourself and Feeling Good

Can you relate to sometimes not knowing what you need or how to know what will make you feel happy and satisfied at a deeper level?

Two Reasons Why You Sabotage Yourself By Letting Go Of What Is Important: 1. You Don’t Know How 2. You Are Giving More Importance To Another Person Than To Your Own Self.

Connecting head and heart is an art for sure. Connecting with what you value and having a vision of what reflects your self-worth opens up gentleness with assertiveness.

The truth is you are sensitive and experiencing your sensitivity in a way that can serve you to authentically connect with your self and with another person is achievable.

TIP#1 Get present with what you experience. By breathing you ground yourself in your body. When you are present in your physical body you feel sensations.

Tip#2 When you feel sensations do take it one step further by owning your reality. What got you to this point? Do not think what you feel. Distinguish your thoughts from your feelings. A thought is not a feeling and a feeling is not a thought.

Tip#3 Allow yourself to feel what you feel and think what you think without judging yourself. What you feel is either an emotion that has a judgement linked to it or it is a pure feeling of the heart.

Bonus Tip: observe and stay detached. There is a reason you think what you think and feel what you feel. This is precious information on what you tolerate or no longer tolerate – or – what you need or want.

What you need to do is tell yourself “I am willing to learn and grow to connect from a place where I feel comfort and satisfaction”.

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Focused on Energy, Money and Your Ultimate Security

Focused on Energy, Money and Your Ultimate Security

We all have heard of the cliché that emotion is energy in motion or that money is energy. Many people stay with this mindset while trying to make the most out of these thoughts. Rationalization through a thinking process leaves this energy at the mental level. On the other hand riding the emotional wave leaves a person feeling stuck with this energy at the emotional level. The ego feeds off the emotional and mental energy bodies.

No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. Albert Einstein

Gaining clarity at the mental and emotional level gives you awareness to back up your actions by having made a good choice. Gaining clarity at the spiritual level gives you consciousness to take your decision from an unshakable and very solid place. When these 3 energies, emotional, mental and spiritual are merged together it naturally results in awareness and consciousness. Situations are in perfect alignment. It leaves you to feel lighthearted. The right person shows up at the perfect moment. The right opportunity shows up at the perfect moment. This naturally opens your heart to embrace life.

When you are responsible and you invest your energy and your money in what you essentially want as opposed to investing in what you think (mental level) or you want or what you feel (emotional level) gives a different result. The result is meaningful. It is soulful! Your satisfaction tells you that your result is fulfilling. When you allow Your Higher Spiritual Trusted Source,  (being on the shoulders of your Higher Self) Your Ultimate Security naturally looks out for you in  both your Affectionate and Financial Securities.

When you are responsible it will at times result in feeling vulnerable. This is normal and healthy. Actually it is agood sign that you are moving out of your comfort zone. Be faithful that Your Trusted Source aligns you perfectly to your next step. Life and the Universe support you all the way as you reach for what you want. It even prepares the path of what you will receive next.  Your job is to receive it by knowing what you will do when it will manifest. Preparation is key!

Money and You

Money and You

Irina Baker, M.A., C.H. is part of Connect With Your Heart Community.  Irina is offering you the opportunity to apply for a complimentary Awareness Shifting Discovery Session. You will enjoy meeting Irina. Make sure to give her my best regards when you speak with her.

I am sure you will enjoy reading this week’s blog written by Irina herself.

Where are you in relationship with money?  Are you friends or do you ignore each other?  In other words, do you want money?  Do you want more money than you already have?  Do you have enough money?  On the surface, all these questions seem silly:  Who in the right mind doesn’t want more money? Read more

Insecurity Through *Feeling Disconnected*

What if you are living with immense anxiety and cannot feel connected to Spirit?

This is where many people struggle and they close their heart. Living with a closed heart is what many fearful people do. Living with a closed heart does not stop a person from functioning. A disconnected person will live through their ego. The outcome will be struggles. It is very difficult to live a relationship with a person that is not emotionally available and feel safe.  If you want to live with emotional security in your relationships you need to start listening to your heart. It is this that will empower you to respect the natural limits of your heart and set your limits with what does not make you feel good.  Taking your decisions from the Intelligence of your heart will enable you to trust yourself and feel more confident.

OUR MOST ESSENTIAL NEED IS THE NEED TO CONNECT

OUR MOST ESSENTIAL NEED IS THE NEED TO CONNECT

 

Staying connected to how you feel and to the Source of your Divinity through your faith and gratitude is the life force. Love is a healer.It’s the natural healer. It’s a medicine. True unconditional love has to start with you if you want to extend it to others. True essential needs are centered within your being. It stems from your shine within wanting to be free and create the life you want to live. Being genuinely happy and satisfied! We all need to be loved, to be heard and to be understood. We need to feel secure. We need to be recognized and esteemed. We most certainly need to take responsibility for our lives. Vital needs stemming from an emotional state are closely linked with survival needs. These needs are fulfilled throughout your day. Many times your basic needs are simple. The essential needs of your heart and soul are over and above emotional needs.

If your own needs are not fulfilled, meeting the needs of another person will breed resentment within. Other times you think you know what another other person needs. This involves caretaking. It takes its root from codependency. You are more into the other person than into yourself, or perhaps you do not allow the other person’s soulful guidance to reveal its clarity. Caretaking is natural for those in need. Parenting a child is natural. Parenting an adult that is not in need involves both caretaking and controlling behaviors.

Perhaps you have difficulties with your own feelings in your heart and to feel better for yourself you must do something for another person. Controlling another person to make you feel better is selfish. It is not with pure intentions of your heart. It is subtle. The ego is at times very subtle. Dominating another person is being disrespectful. Every person has their individual soulful essence. This guides people perfectly. Your Essence guides you perfectly. Be faithful to you and connect with your heart. This will enable you to authentically connect with others.

Part 4 of 4 – Essential Needs of Your Soulful Essence

Part 4 of 4 – Essential Needs of Your Soulful Essence

If you are not capable of accepting your self with what you live you will judge your self as needy or will live with guilt. For example, if you cannot accept how you look you will not accept how another person looks. You will not see the beauty because you don’t see your own beauty. Love is seeing beauty.Loot at nature, it is just beautiful. You need to accept your self with unconditional love. You need to be important for your self. When this very fundamental need ‘importance’ is not fulfilled you reveal your intimacy without limits or boundaries. Or on the other hand you might withdraw into your self or perhaps isolate your self.

You need to be important for YOU!

Naturally you know who is important for you. We need to respect ourselves and respect others. We need humility. Humility gives us the gentleness and flexibility. It is the quest of the heart & soul that leads. It has its own rhythm. We need to connect with our Essence, to our divinity. It is the ultimate connection that leads us lovingly to connect together and share true love.

Only let endurance have perfect results so that you may become perfect and complete, deficient in nothing. James 1:4

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Part 3 of 4 – Essential Need of your Heart & Soul

Part 3 of 4 – Essential Need of your Heart & Soul

If you allow your emotions to be the boss of you it will take over your psyche. Your physical body will react in some sort of discomforting way such as pain, tensions, a cold, a backache, a headache, or something else. If you take on too much I mean take on another person’ stuff on you will have back or shoulder problems. It somehow takes the physical body as a hostage. You follow and don’t have a choice. Doctors and mental health professionals would know something about this that’s for sure!

When you naturally follow your heart’s desire with clarity you know exactly what you need. When this connection happens life supports you because you are aligned with your Soulful Essence. Every one of us wants to reach this destination on our journey. Self-respect is gained over time through experiences. Be patient and glorify the victories because they add up. We are on this earth to learn love. Each and every one of us who walks on this planet is here for a lesson of love. Learn to love yourself and share love with someone else. There was never a school for this. We were left on our own for this one. Learn LOVE and to share LOVE.ESSENTIAL NEEDS STEM FROM OUR BEING, NOT FROM DOING OR HAVING.

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Part 2 of 4 – The Fear Of Love From The Ego Versus Pure Loving Intentions From The Heart

Part 2 of 4 

The Fear Of Love From The Ego Versus Pure Loving Intentions From The Heart

As adults we strive to be emotionally and spiritually mature. We strive to align our mental attitude with our heart. We strive to connect our heart with our head. As adults we become mindful and connect our mind with our heart. The ego part with the child or teenage part will linger on until it has been lovingly and compassionately taken care of. When our emotions and our feelings flow through us, while at the same time capturing the negative thoughts, it enables a deep transformation in the psyche. As an adult it is our responsibility to discern our ego and to heal our heart through soulful love.

When the pain of ego is not healed it turns into a control issue. Controlling one self and controlling others, putting pressure on one self and putting pressure on others. It can also turn into a very strong emotional resistance. This pressure to control how we love and care for our self, or how we love and care for another person is very much intertwined between fear of the ego and love of the heart. The ego has developed and learned ways to have or get love and to feel safe. It did this to be protective. This is referred to as survival mechanisms of the ego. These survival patterns become dysfunctional relational patterns. The dysfunctional relational patterns give birth to emotional turmoil and emotional drama within relationships.

 When the child grows up, as an adult, the man or the woman wants to find someone to love. However over the years the ego has developed internal defensive controlling ways to protect the child from suffering. The energy of the child lives on within the adult. These defenses are filled with systems that are controlling. The controlling ways are both conscious and unconscious. Finding the right person to love will not give the adult the love he or she craves. The heart and soul craves love to heal. The way to feel the soulful love that is needed to heal is through one’s own Essence.

Connect with your Heart and know the soulful needs of your Essence. Heal your heart through love.

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