Wealth consciousness – let’s have a peak behind not deserving happiness. How does your sense of worthiness impact your life today?
Do you want to know? I sure wanted to know and solve this at its root once of for all!
I know, you’ve worked on this already. I remember a client Kathy, who said that she wanted to do her coaching practice to feel significant.. yes feel worthy! She didn’t really get to the root and said that she had done enough work on worthiness. Do you think that you will have a lot of value coaching with Kathy.? no you won’t because it is all about Kathy and not so much about you. This problem impacts money in a negative way because it’s out of ego and needing to prove one’s worth, and it is not out of offering a contribution and value to the life of another person. That doesn’t work! Money will not work in a business like this. Unfortunately many coaches have not fully resolved their worthiness issue and it impacts the quality of their service.
Let’s get into another situation that needs attention in order to solve this worthiness problem once and for all! Today I had a facebook conversation with a brilliant and talented soulful woman who wrote ”I have been working on worthiness for years. As you said, it is peeling off layers and layers” !!
What’s behind not deserving happiness is something very individual because it’s an unconscious decision that you took at one point or another in your life, some sort of a silent agreement that limits you today. Let’s look at mine as this will give you a good idea of how this underground stuff works.
I made, as a child, the powerful decision that I don’t deserve happiness. This bloock was released during a deep healing with a coach. I just didn’t get it! It stayed like that. Numbness energy was released, you know that num feeling that shuts out pain, a defensive mechanism we all have. I wanted to make sense of this. I prayed to have clarity. Some clarity was given by Tony Robbins which pointed me back in the direction of ”I am not enough, and even I am not enough for God” What an illusion, right?
You can’t tell someone ” hey you’re not enough and worthiness problem is a figment of your imagination. You’re a child of God, Period!” Spiritual laws are of freedom! We suffer because of conscious or unconscious believes about happiness, and yes money is also meant to add more happiness in our lives through comfort and experiences.
Let me get back to Tony. Because a part of me felt ”I’m not important, I’m not good enough to make my mother happy was somehow linked to the silent agreement ”I don’t deserve happiness”. What does this problem have to do with wealth consciousness? I will tell you in a second.
Maybe you also have a situation in your life that doesn’t work how you want it to work, maybe feeling overwhelmed with an emotional or financial mess that you want to resolve once and for all! You’ve probably done some work on yourself and find yourself living a similar pattern once again.
All of this stuff has its root in our childhood. As a child I was happy. The age range of 7 to 12 were most disturbing as I have had no memory recollection of this timeframe. Through healing heart hurts and shifting blocks, and by the way these were triggered by life experiences and different relationships, mostly important ones such as a boss when I worked in the coroporate world, husband, friend.. you get the idea… right.?
Weath consciousness is impacted by a pain pattern that includes a disconnect and awful feeling energy that sort of brings you right back to square one with behaviours that don’t have your back and struggles or some adversity! We all have experienced this. That’s what makes it that we want to reclaim our value and worthiness from our imporint that impacted both our life and money and just get on to doing something we love and make good money from what makes us feel happy!
HERE IS THE MINDSET: When I own my value, I allow life to return to me my worth through other people, money and fun experiences. However when your pain pattern unconsciously sabotages you it causes struggles. I get it!
We all create our experiences. Just these past few days I received an email from my mentor with a few affirmation statements that are empowering and I want to share them with you.
As I create wealth others create wealth with me. I am becoming a woman of wealth at a soul level and in my bank account!
Here is something that is proven. Your life is a success and works when you have resolved that deeper disconnect. You can have success with both your life, and your business and money!
”As I become highly successful others become highly successful with me!” Your business is successful when you treat your business with the respect it deserves as an entity that enables you to offer your soul contribution and expression and by creating your income through your self-value.
Today as a tender, bold and assertive wholehearted soulful woman do I believe that I don’t deserve to be happy? The answer is NO! I just need to acknowledge what is triggering my pain pattern of ”no communication equals pain because no one hears me” (remember I was raised with deaf parents and they gave birth to seven children within the space of ten years and I was the third child.. very courageous people!
At five years old what I did to have attention or affection was to steal money from my mother’s purse, my father’s cash register, the church baskets and go site in front of the house on the sidewalk only to give away the money to have attention or affection. So my love and money were mixed up from a very early age, and I really believe that we hold society beliefs about money because how would a five old know that money is a tool that helps to have what one wants to be happier? All of this also made me struggle in my relationships until I healed the root cause of this self-value and worthiness problem to be empowered with my choices and decisions.
All of this turned out to be part of my life lessons and soul contribution and expression to help you bust those blocks and limiitng beliefs once and for all so you can do what you love and make good money, have more success and happiness, and be well surrounded. You deserve it!
Connect With Your Heart! OWN your life, your dream, your soul and money!
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