Valuing yourself, your life, your wants, needs and desires is not something that was taught in school. Even in the most perfect and functional families this is not taught as a formal lesson unless there is a lot of pain involved. If this was part of our family heritage we would all be exactly where we want to be and we would all have exactly what we want to have in no time at all!
On the one hand there is a push from within, a gentle push of your heart and soul that guides you, and on the other hand there is the resistance and control, an internal pressure that feels tense. For those of you that are more sensitive you feel this more intensively. I understand you!
I grew up with deaf parents so in my mind their needs were more important than my needs. I had the same thought pattern for my son and husband until I learned to put the oxygen mask on myself first! Perhaps your situations regarding the needs of your family (children, spouse etc…) are more important and your needs are left aside or for another day…
I learned how to value myself and be assertive out of self-respect and respect for others and value another person’s needs through balance without losing myself so it is never too late for anything regardless if you are 20 or 40 or 60 or 80 years old. Who you are follows you everywhere at home, at work and at play. So the foundation of your growth is also reflected in your family, work and in your business for those of you are in business. This does have a positive or negative impact on your money.
If you want to achieve inner peace in your life, feel more love, be happier, do the work that you love, ask for a raise or raise the prices of your services, have more comfort, be a good role model for your children you need to start by valuing yourself and your needs. This is the start to achieving a high self-worth. Self-Love! You need to decide that you will bust the insecurity that causes your resistance.
So having a strategy to be action oriented in your authentic power, being in agreement with your decisions, choices and values and connect with yourself is what will help you.
You can have what you want and feel in control. I have walked that path from feeling insecure and not valuing myself to living a soulful assertive lifestyle and connecting to happiness and success. You can live with inner peace – peace of mind and heartfelt serenity. Knowing how to fulfill the right needs to give you a deeper satisfaction. There is no need to struggle through your changes. There are solutions and steps that I have created to help you.
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